John 14:15-21
As human beings we are simply not wired to
be alone. We are wired to be in, to live in, relationship, and I mean
that in the broadest sense. There are many of us who, for various reasons live by ourselves. But we are connected through a broad range of
threads drawing us to other people, and linking us in profound ways to each
other. Regardless of which Genesis creation story you read, we are told that
once God had labored to produce the magnificent creation, and before God was truly done with that original creative
work, God went about creating humankind. First, God created Adam. And once God
had set the first human in the garden, God decided that it wasn’t good that the
man should be alone with only animals to keep him company, so God created
woman.
For better or worse, from that time forward
the nature of human kind has been that we are made for living in relationship
to one another. We are connected.
Even more importantly, we are made for relationship
with God. Of course God envisioned and designed the perfect kind of relationships, and though we have challenged God’s
vision and design over the ensuing millennia, still, God persists in building, creating and sustaining relationship with us
and for us. And because connectedness is our
nature, the opposite condition –
being alone - frightens most of us. In fact the thought of being left alone, of
being isolated and abandoned terrifies us.
It is that
fear, I think, that drives us to thoughts of boogey men and monstrous
creatures lurking around us when as children- or adults - we lay alone in our
beds at night – that and a hefty dose of Grimm’s fairy tales, Disney movies, or
whatever the conveyors of evil and malevolence are for you these days. There is
security in numbers; there is safety in company; there is confidence within
supportive relationships and networks.
In her book, Gospel Medicine, Barbara Bradford Taylor shares her experience of being the eldest of
three daughters, and therefore the designated babysitter in the family from
about the time she was twelve years old. Each time she would be left to care
for her siblings, more or less the same scenario would play itself out. After
receiving from her parents both the pep talk about how much they trusted her because she was so responsible, and then all the necessary instructions, including emergency numbers and protocols for what to do in case something should go wrong, she would walk with her parents
to the door, where everyone would kiss goodbye. Then, Barbara writes, “the lock clicked into place, and a new era
began. I was in charge. Turning
around to face my new responsibilities, what I saw were my sisters’ faces,
looking at me with something between hope
and fear. They knew I was no substitute for what they had just lost, but
since I was all they had they were willing to try.”
Taylor then describes how everyone would be
agreeable for a while, as they played games and ate their snacks. But eventually,
as the night went on they all got crankier and crankier. “Where are mommy and
daddy?” the younger girls would ask. “Where
did they go? When will they come
back? I told them over and over again,” Bradford Taylor says. “I made up
elaborate stories about what we would all do together in the morning. I
promised them that if they would go to sleep I would make sure mommy and daddy
kissed them good night when they came in.”
What made Bradford Taylor and her sisters
fearful, was that something might happen to their parents while they were out.
What if something bad happened to
them? What if they were in an accident?
What if they never came back? What if
we are left orphaned? What will
happen then? And that age-old, primitive fear took over – what if we are left alone? Alone to fend for ourselves in the
world, alone without a safety net, alone without the guidance, love and
support of the ones who have been the center of our universe? Abandoned and
alone, what will we do?
As Bradford Taylor explains, as the
sister-babysitter, it was hard for her, too, because of course she had her own fears. She was a potential orphan too, with as much to lose as her
sisters. But she couldn’t give in to her fear because she was the one in
charge, the one who was supposed to be cheerful and confident and sure of the
future for her sake and for her sisters’. She was supposed to know all the
answers. But fear stalked her, too. I think that there are so many parallels to
our lives, too. I wonder what instills that kind of fear in you?
This is the question that is at the core of
our text for today. It is the question that certainly was on the minds of the
disciples as Jesus is telling them that he will be leaving them soon. How can Jesus leave us alone? What will
happen to us? What are they going to do without Jesus there leading them,
guiding them, teaching them all there is to know about God and about this new
life that Jesus is offering them? Keeping them safe?
What is it that the disciples need to hear
from Jesus?
They need to hear that they will not be left alone. They need to know how they will live. They need to know how they will continue in this
relationship with God, how they can
be disciples once Jesus is gone from them, and how they will do all that they
need to do as disciples of Christ. They need to know how they will exist
once he is gone, and is no longer there to teach them, guide them, and
accompany them. And, crankily, they
want to know, how could he be leaving
anyway?
Jesus knows what is in the mind and hearts
of his disciples. He knows what the challenges of the next days will bring as
he faces his arrest, passion and death. Jesus knows the confusion that will
follow the discovery of the empty tomb. Jesus knows how frightening it is to be
left alone.
What Jesus offers the disciple both then
and now is the promise of “another advocate”. Jesus himself, “the first advocate”
is God incarnate, who came so that we might see and experience God – and for
the disciples, that is exactly what Jesus has done up to now. But now as Jesus
is preparing to leave, he gives his instructions and he makes these promises;
his beloved disciples –we – will not be left alone; he will not abandon them, but instead, through
the Spirit, will continue to abide with
them - us. Jesus will not leave
these children of God orphaned, without an anchor. Rather, Jesus will give an
advocate, who will stay with them.
In a couple of weeks we will celebrate the
descent of the Holy Spirit upon the disciples at Pentecost. We will celebrate
the special gifts and tools for ministry they received, similar to the gifts we
receive through baptism. But in these verses before us today, Jesus is
promising the disciples that through the love of God, their allegiance to
Christ is a sure foundation, and by their love and their dedication to the
mission Christ has set before them, they will be blessed. And this is a word of
grace and gospel for us today as well.
On Pentecost the Spirit descends to equip
us for mission, too, but for today, the purpose of the Spirit is to advocate
for us, to accompany us, to bear out the words of Christ, that although the
cross and the tomb and then the empty tomb await, Jesus is not leaving us
alone. Rather, in love and mercy Jesus is ever and will ever be with us. This
week we celebrate Ascension Day – the day on which the disciples witnessed
Jesus physically ascending as on clouds, up into heaven. It is the final
“leave-taking” of Jesus, so to speak, and once again it may feel like Jesus is
abandoning us as he shed his earthly bonds and ascends into heaven. But as
Jesus has promised, there is life
after Easter; there is abundant life
in the presence and power of the Holy Spirit, through whom Jesus accompanies us
throughout our days.
As Bradford Taylor comments, as Christians,
we may sometimes feel like the babysitter left in charge, the responsible elder
children trusted to carry on in Christ’s name, and “everywhere we go,” she
writes, “we see the faces of those whom he has given in our care.” They come
from different places with different expectations and different needs and
wants. They may still be waiting for Jesus to return or they may have given up.
“Where is he? Where did he go? And when will he be back? It is hard, being the
ones in charge, because we are potential orphans too, only he said he was
coming back again, and not only at the end of time.”
Jesus promises that through the Spirit,
this advocate, he will be with us, he
will accompany us, and will make a home with us. Jesus promises
that there is life beyond Easter
because the power and presence of Easter persist
beyond the empty tomb. Jesus promises life beyond the boogeymen and
monstrous creatures and the fearsome evil we confront in daily life. As David
Lose puts it, there is more to being a child of God than being raised from the
dead. Our Easter reality is that we are alive for Christ, we are bold to live
without fear, because Jesus does not, and never will, leave us alone.
Jesus will soon ascend into heaven, and the
post resurrection visits that we have read about will come to an end. But God’s
presence, God’s abiding with us, will not end. God has made us God’s dwelling
place. God will continue to make Godself known to us, through advocating,
accompanying, comforting, constantly creating and inspiring Spirit of God. God
will never leave us alone, for in life, in death, and in life after death, we
will ever be in the power and presence of our Lord. Of this we can be sure. Thanks
be to God! Amen.