Matthew 5:21-37 ~ February 16, 2014
We’ve all heard them. Pithy sayings
and Proverbs like “Don’t let the sun go
down on your anger.” Or, “Whoever is
slow to anger has great understanding, but the one who has a hasty temper
exalts folly.” Or my personal favorite, “It
is the fool who does not control his anger.” And yet, let’s face it. We all
get angry sometimes. Our spouse doesn’t listen to us, or our kids don’t obey
us; our friend disappoints us, or our co-worker or boss abuses us, and we get
angry. The world just doesn’t understand us, the bullies around us thrive on
our suffering, injustices occur to us and around us each and every day, and we
get angry. We get dangerously cut off in traffic by that so-and-so jerk in the
flashy little sports car, and we start fuming. Sometimes, it seems that
selfishness and lack of consideration are rampant, and there exists a deplorable lack of ethics and morality
all around us. The world is going to hell in a hand-basket, and We. Get. Angry.
It’s just natural, right?
Then we hear words like these
spoken by Jesus and it feels like Jesus is pointing his finger right at us, saying
that anger is just wrong, wrong, wrong, and since we know ourselves well enough
to know that it is impossible to shut
off the anger switch, we just shut down. We stop listening. Because you know
what? It’s just too hard, Jesus. Sometimes, I do get angry, and I can’t help it. I cannot not be angry sometimes. I know that it is impossible for me to keep
from getting angry in some situations,
with some people, at certain times.
For instance, if you want to see me angry, just let me see
someone disadvantage or abuse a child, the elderly or an animal, or anyone who
is smaller, weaker, more vulnerable than themselves. Want to see me angry? Exhibit hatred, prejudice and
racism, and claim that you are doing it in the name of Christ. If you want to
see me really angry, catch me when
I’m tired and overwhelmed with work and then attack someone or something I
love, disparage someone I care about, or defame a cause close to my heart,
spewing ignorance and calling it fact.
And yet, even though anger is often
perceived as a negative emotion, and many believe that a good Christian simply doesn’t get angry or show anger, ever, we know that anger is sometimes useful and even healthy. Psychologists will tell you that while we often view anger
as a “bad” emotion, it can motivate us in positive ways. For instance, it can motivate us to improve a bad
situation, or address an injustice, or assert our rights and needs. Anger can
sometimes help focus our attention on something that really needs to be
changed. Properly channeled, anger
can actually stimulate the part of our brain that leads to creativity and
problem solving. Most of us may remember that Jesus sometimes displayed anger,
most notably when he overturned the money-handlers tables in the temple and
called them out for their un-godly behaviors.
So then, what does it mean when
Jesus equates anger with murder? For that is what Jesus seems to
be doing this first of what scholars call Jesus’ “six antitheses”? – these
statements that begin, “You have heard it said,….” followed by a common
teaching, and then the words, “But I
say to you”….. followed by a new
teaching or explanation. What Jesus says is, “You have heard that it was said …,
‘You shall not murder’; and whoever murders is liable to judgment.’ “But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will
be liable to judgment,” and so on.
Our second year Confirmation students
can tell you that the sin of killing doesn’t just refer to someone taking an ax
or a gun and physically assaulting another until they are dead, rather, the
commandment not to kill includes a prohibition against doing anything to ruin or damage another’s
personhood, reputation, or relationship within the community. These things are
not only hurtful to the person upon whom they are heaped but also destructive
to the life of community.
Let’s remember that in this long
discourse known as the Sermon on the Mount that began with the beatitudes, Jesus
is addressing the disciples and those who are following him, teaching them the
way of discipleship. Jesus has already told these followers that in the kingdom
of heaven, where God rules, and into which all are invited, the status quo has
been reversed. There is a new way of living interconnected lives as disciples in
community that lives God’s justice
and righteousness. In this kingdom,
lives are transformed, hearts are made pure, and love is measured and treasured
as never before. What you do and what you say matters not only to the
individuals involved but to the community at large and by extension, to the
very kingdom of heaven.
Jesus said, those who follow him
and belong to God, are salt and light. We are valuable, and we add flavor and
meaning to the community of the followers of the Son of Man. And here, in
today’s text we get a glimpse of what God’s kingdom looks like. Previously,
Jesus has said that he came not to abolish the law but to fulfill the law. And within
the framework of the antitheses, Jesus is re-teaching the fundamental truths of
what that means. Jesus is not giving us a new
set of laws, as the gospel of Matthew points out, rather, Jesus is teaching and
showing the intention of the law as
God established it, especially as it pertains to living and working together.
Jesus wants his followers to be people of integrity, people of honor and people
of love.
The kingdom of heaven is not
entered lightly. The kingdom of heaven makes its demands. The kingdom of heaven,
in fact, demands radical discipleship,
discipleship that shapes our
behaviors, our thoughts, and our words. Belonging to this kingdom and doing
this kingdom work requires that every
thought and action is transformed by, guided by, and indeed is ruled by God’s reign and God’s Word.
And so, in this Sermon on the
Mount, where Jesus is teaching the Jesus-followers of every time and place what it means to be a community shaped by
God’s righteousness and God’s love, we receive a lesson on how we should treat one another, how we should let God’s love and God’s command to love guide
our pathways. We hear illustrations by Jesus of just how important
relationships and life within the community of Jesus-followers really is. At
the forefront of this message is the overarching theme that being blessed in
community frees us from nursing anger.
When Jesus refers to those who “are
angry” he is talking about continuing, unresolved, simmering anger. He is
talking about the kind of anger that
occurs when grudges are held onto, hurts and disagreements are harbored, where
heels are dug in and insults, gossip and name-calling damage the communal
spirit. The destruction caused by this kind of rupture in relationship is so devastating, that Jesus gives an
extreme example of how it should be addressed.
So here it is: Imagine that you
have just traveled all the way from home to the temple at Jerusalem, a distance
that takes you several days to travel, in order to make your sacrifice, a sacred obligation to God. So in our
context, imagine that our temple is located in California. We each have a holy
duty to take ourselves there and bring God an offering to be presented there
and only there. Since suggesting you would fly from home here in Easton,
Maryland to California would be anachronistic, let’s just say you’ll drive.
It’s going to take you a week. But once you arrive, as you stand at the altar
prepared to offer your gift, you remember a grievance between you and a sister
or brother within here at Grace, back in Easton.
God considers it is so important
that you heal that rift that Jesus
says, leave the gift. Set it down. Do not present it as sacrifice just yet, it
is not the more important thing to do at this point. Instead, go back, and
reconcile that ruptured relationship. Then
you may return; then and only then
should you give your gift to God. To do any less than this has repercussions
throughout the community. To do anything less is an assault on the community
and on the kingdom of God. Close communities need to maintain social order and
harmony to exist, says Barbara Lundblad. In all matters of conflict and
disharmony, Jesus bids us to avoid seeking revenge, from bearing grudges, or
from nursing an anger that eats away at the fabric of community and the mission
God. Disharmony in the faith community makes an appalling witness to the larger
society.
Jim Wallis in his book “The
Call to Conversion” makes this connection: “When I was a university student, I was unsuccessfully evangelized by
almost every Christian group on campus. My basic response to their preaching
was, “How can I believe when I look at the way the church lives?” They
answered, “Don’t look at the church—look at Jesus.”
Wallis continues, “I now believe that statement is one of the
saddest in the history of the church. It puts Jesus on a pedestal apart from
the people who name his name…Such thinking is a denial of what is most basic to
the gospel: incarnation.”
There is no getting around it, my
friends. God’s grace, bestowed on us at baptism sets us apart as Jesus
followers. And that means something.
The Spirit of God rests within each and every one of us, and that Spirit directs our activity through
the giving of gifts, and the establishment of community, the blessing of
ministry and relationship with God and with one another. Christ went to the
cross for our sake, and in the crucifixion draws us all to himself in loving
forgiveness of sin and restoration of the broken. As workers in the kingdom of
God, sharing God’s goodness and mercy, embracing grace as a way of life, God
blesses us to harbor not hate but love, not resentment but generosity, not
grudges, but the life-giving love of God.
Let us pray:
O compassionate God, you have
mercifully absorbed the worst of human anger and rage in the crucifixion of
Jesus. Free us daily from any contempt we might harbor towards others, and help
us to risk taking steps of reconciliation towards those with whom we feel at
odds. For Jesus’ sake. Amen.