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Showing posts with label unfair. Show all posts

Monday, September 22, 2014

Scrambled, Over-easy, or Poached?

Matthew 20:1-16 and Jonah 3:10 - 4:11

Our God is indeed gracious and merciful. Our God is slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. Those familiar words and words like them form prayers we repeat throughout our worship, are contained in the texts of the hymns we sing and even frame our liturgy. We lift them up because, aren’t these the things we love about God, the things in our relationship with God for which offer our thanks and praise? Isn’t this the gospel that we yearn to and need to hear – that God is full of mercy; that God loves us; and that God’s grace is bountiful and big enough to forgive all our sins?
While all of that is true, God is all of these things and more, as our scripture texts illustrate this morning, one thing that our God is not, is fair. And somehow, despite all those things that I just listed and all the other attributes of God we could name, deep down inside we want a God who is fair. More to the point, we want a God who is fair as we judge fairness.
            The concept of fairness is important to us. Very early in life we begin to make judgments about what is fair and what is not. And very early in life we begin to push back when the treatment we observe or experience, or when life itself does not meet our expectations and demands of fairness.
I was reminded of this recently. When I visit my son and his family which includes our grandson in Pennsylvania, I usually spend a lot of my time, most of it, in fact, playing with 4 year old Alex. We play all sorts of games. While the other adults are talking, preparing a meal or otherwise engaged, I become this child’s favored playmate – a role I really enjoy.
While I was on a trip up north on business not long ago, however, I decided to stop by to say hi and to load up my car with some things I needed to bring to Easton. I didn’t get to play with Alex that day, despite his repeated requests (which are really more like demands, truth be told) of, “will you play with me now?” My repeated answer was, “I’m afraid not this time, Buddy. Next time I come, we’ll play together again.”
How to explain to a four year old the very real demands of adulthood and limitations of time? As I was preparing to leave, I found Alex sitting on the couch next to his mother. He wasn’t in the mood for a hug or a kiss or a tickle. As I turned and walked away, I heard the lament in his voice as he quietly told his mother, “It’s not fair. It’s just not fair!” Alex was disappointed. He expected Grandma to behave in the way she had always done – as his playmate. I had disappointed his expectations. I had scrambled the usual order of things. We can all probably relate, and empathize with Alex and join his lament at times.
Back in the day when John McEnroe was a big name in the tennis world, I used to love to watch him play, less, to be honest, because of the tennis being played, and more for the entertainment value of those matches. John was known for his firey temper and bad behavior. It was not unusual for fist and voice to raise, feet to stomp, and expletives and tennis rackets to fly when John was displeased. And what set John off the most was what he felt were unfair calls on the part of the umpire or line judge.
As I think about it, what probably attracted my attention and held my interest in these performances was that even though I thought John’s reactions to perceived unfair calls and plays, and his frequent misbehaviors were outrageous, infantile, and even downright shameful, I got it. I understood what it was like to want to flail around protesting what was unfair.
John was only doing, on the public stage, what the inner child in me wants to do when I feel disadvantaged, disillusioned, and frustrated because things don’t go my way and injustice reigns. John’s fury mirrored what I feel deep down inside when someone else gets what should be my rewards, or their rewards are simply out of balance with who they are and what they have done.
When I watched those matches and rooted for John McEnroe, maybe what I was really doing was living out my own protest to the injustices and unfairness in my own life vicariously through John’s antics. “It’s not fair. It’s just not fair!”
Both the story of Jonah and his reaction to God’s mercy toward the city of Nineveh, and again in the gospel text today, we read echoes of this same indignant response to God’s mercy which seems unbalanced and unfair. We see echoes of the gut-level response we might feel when undeserved mercy and grace are shown to those we deem unworthy. And the stories and indignation resonate with us.
In Jonah’s case, God’s grace was dispensed to the city of Nineveh, the capital city of Assyria, detested enemy of the people of Israel. These are not the favored people of God, as Jonah’s people are. These are not decent, peaceful neighbors of the Israelites. Ninevites don’t follow the Law as received and shared by Moses. They are not worthy of God’s notice let alone God’s grace.
Yet, God has chosen to show this city mercy. When they heard God’s word, spoken through Jonah, they repented and mended their evil ways.  Jonah’s reaction was to become angry and morose. It’s bad enough that God issued this merciful reprieve to the city, but the fact that God used Jonah as the vessel through which God’s word was delivered and the city saved is more than Jonah can bear. He would rather die than see this great city of the enemy nation be saved. It’s not fair, LORD. It’s just not fair!
In the gospel lesson, we are confronted with more seemingly unjustifiable mercy. When we read this parable of the Laborers in the Vineyard, our “fairness meter” just goes flat. The story doesn’t seem right. It doesn’t play out the way it is supposed to. The laborers who have worked all day get paid the same wage as those who have worked only an hour? It doesn’t matter that they got paid the wage they agreed to, which they thought sufficient and fair when they were hired. The laborers deem the landowner’s generosity frivolous, and unjust. They should get more! It’s not fair, LORD. It’s just not fair!
Deep down inside we know that this story is consistent with the kingdom of heaven as Jesus has been illustrating it throughout his parables and indeed, throughout his ministry. We should know by now that the generosity of God, which knows no bounds, doesn’t operate in the same way as the world around us. In this parable once again, Jesus is scrambling the usual order of things, and challenging the usual assumptions about who is in and who is out, who is first and who is last, who receives mercy and who does not, who is valued and loved and who is not. In the kingdom of God all who believe are welcome, all are forgiven, all receive grace upon grace. The lesson Jesus imparts may be a tough pill to swallow – unless you hear with a renewed heart and mind.
Eric Barreto, professor at Luther Seminary, says that we hear this text through the lens of our 21st century Western culture, and we interpret it as a parable about fairness in the kingdom of God.
We live in a culture where we are taught from the cradle that hard work will yield just rewards. You have to work hard for what you want. Nothing comes easy. Conversely, the spoken and unspoken lesson that we learn well is that the “have nots” are in dire straights because they have just not tried hard enough, not worked hard enough, not lived well enough to deserve the same kinds of rewards as those of us who have slaved away to earn what we see as our just reward.
Conversely, Barreto says, people of two thirds of the world that is undeveloped, people who live in lands where survival is a struggle, people who live on the fringes, hear in this parable a word of promise and grace. For them, this story is the story of a God who loves so much, whose mercy is so large, whose desire for relationship with the creation is so intense, that it turns the world upside down. For people who are open to receive it, this parable is not about what is fair and not fair. Instead, this parable is a story about a love so strong that it pushes through boundaries and grants the gift of grace to the least, the last, the lost, the little and the lifeless.
God is gracious and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love – for all. In baptism we each receive the grace of God that is freely given to all. The truth is, that as Martin Luther wrote, in the presence of God’s mercy, we are all beggars.
Indeed, in the presence of God’s mercy, we are all a mess. God doesn’t give any of us what we deserve. Rather, God gives us what we need. We need God’s grace. We get offended by God’s divine distribution of grace because, my friends, we forget who we are. We forget that we are beggars. We forget that while some of us may clean up better than others and some of us may be better at hiding our sin than others, we are all like the Ninevites, and the last-minute laborers. We all fall short of that to which we are called. We all mess up. We all disobey. We all are utterly dependent on God’s mercy and grace.
But God’s generous gift of grace scrambles our expectations, scrambles the status quo, and scrambles our sense of fairness and justice. God’s gift of grace redeems us all. God’s grace makes forgiveness and reconciliation possible. God’s grace means there is room at the table for each of us, time and time again, no matter where we’ve wandered, no matter who we are.  
          And that, my brothers and sisters in Christ, is a game-changer, because the truth and the good news of this gospel is that God is not fair. Thanks be to God!


Wednesday, September 25, 2013

The Unjust Steward, Or, Sandwiches Anyone?

We celebrated this past Sunday as Youth Sunday, with youth serving in various roles throughout worship services. One of our youth helped write a liturgical drama, embedded within the sermon, and the kids did an awesome job of helping us work with this difficult text. I've left some of the "stage directions" in to help readers visualize how it came together:

The Unjust Steward, Or, Sandwiches Anyone?
PASTOR KAREN: Before we begin the sermon, the youth actually have a quick announcement to make. Sorry I forgot you earlier, guys. You can go ahead now, while I run back to my office to grab something I forgot. It seems to be my day for forgetting things!
ELIZABETH:         Hi! I’m Elizabeth Criss, and I’d like to talk to you for just a moment on behalf of all the youth standing here, and a few who couldn’t make it this morning.
JEANETTE: Yeah – like it’s too early for some people to get out of bed – wish MY parents got THAT memo—
Students around Jeanette giggle and roll their eyes in agreement.
ELIZABETH: (Shooting a look of annoyance to Jeanette) Yes, as I was saying, I am representing the Grace Youth Group with an announcement about an upcoming fundraiser. We’ve been working hard making and trying to sell these sandwiches to support our trips to FreeRide and RoadTrip this year. We really need your support.
BEN: Yeah, so, we have some to sell today, we’re going to be taking orders, and making the sandwiches, and selling them from now until FreeRide.
ELIZABETH:  OR until they are all sold, so that we can all go.
(gestures with hands as if praying/pleading and mouths, “please, please!” – the rest of the youth mimic him/her)
BEN: So, if you have any questions, please contact Matthew or Christopher. Matthew and Chris are two of our senior youth, and Mr. Kevin has put them in charge of keeping track of this fundraiser.
Kevin has been standing off to the side. As he makes his way to the front-center, he gestures with his hands while saying,
KEVIN: Yes, so if you have any questions, about the sandwiches or the fundraiser itself, please call THEM and not ME.
JACK: But wait!........Jack looks all around.
I don’t see them. Where ARE Matthew and Chris? Since they’re in charge, THEY should be here too!
JEANETTE: Right! Like, WE all had to be here, and they’re in charge, so why aren’t THEY here?
All of the youth act like they are looking for Matthew and Chris and grumble
KEVIN: loudly Christopher! Matthew! Yelling  Christopher! Matthew!
Matthew and Chris enter from the sacristy door, shoving food into their mouths and eating quickly.
CHRIS: Mmph?
MATTHEW: Uh, yes?
NEVEN: Are you eating the sandwiches?
JACK: The sandwiches we’ve been working our fingers to the bone to make?
JEANETTE: I’ve been smelling like ham and turkey and pickles for weeks!
BEN: I dream – no, it’s more like a nightmare - that I’m drowning in huge pots of mustard and mayonnaise!
Other youth start grumbling. KEVIN tries shushing them.
NEVEN: You are supposed to be leading us!
JEANETTE: Yeah! But you haven’t given us any direction! You’ve just sat there eating sandwiches! Sandwiches WE all made!
JACK: What a waste!
Youth are ALL muttering, grumbling to themselves and each other, gesturing toward Chris and Matthew, start shoving each other, a couple sit down on the step of the chancel, head in hands.
Our Youth Managers are summoned by Mr. Kevin
KEVIN: (to the congregation) I’m sorry, um, please excuse us for a minute.
Kevin drags Chris and Matthew off to the pulpit side. As he talks to them, the other youth shush each other and very obviously try to listen in.
KEVIN: This is a warning. You guys need to take care of this, but I have to tell you that I am really, really disappointed in you. You get one more shot, or else.
MATTHEW: Or - else what?
KEVIN: Or else you are suspended from Youth Group for not doing your part!
The youth all gasp. Kevin shoots them “a look” then continues on.seniors are supposed to set the example for the younger members.
CHRIS and MATTHEW hang their heads.
KEVIN: If you don’t shape up, Chris, I’ll call the synod and there will be no going to FreeRide for you. Neither one of you will go on RoadTrip in January. And you will not go on any of our outing between now and then. This is serious. I – and they – are counting on you to do your job. Now do it, or you’re out!
KEVIN gives the youth one last look, looks pointedly at Matthew and Chris, then leaves via the pulpit side door.
CHRIS and MATTHEW begin to walk slowly toward the center while talking.
CHRIS: I told you that was a bad idea
MATTHEW: That’s not important! We need to find a way to get in the other kids’ good graces.
CHRIS: You mean, get them on our side so that maybe Kevin will see and stop being mad at us?
MATTHEW: Exactly! But I don’t know what we’ll do…
The youth begin to talk among themselves.
JEANETTE: I’m having a hard time selling all these sandwiches!
JACK: Yeah! Me too!
NEVEN: I still can’t believe we have to sell 10 sandwiches EACH.
CHRIS: I have an idea! Walks over to one of the youth.
CHRIS: Okay, how many sandwiches have you sold?
JEANETTE: Three.
CHRIS: Okay, we’ll write down that you sold 5.
JEANETTE: Wow! Thanks!
CHRIS turns to JACK.
CHRIS: How many have YOU sold?
JACK: Uh, four.
MATTHEW: (to Chris) Okay, I get it –
MATTHEW: (to JACK)  We’ll write down you sold, (he hesitates, looks at Chris) – seven!
CHRIS nods approvingly, smiles.
MATTHEW and CHRIS go down the line quietly, continuing to do the same for each youth. As they go, youth who have already gotten a break compare notes with each other and high-five each other. This continues while KEVIN reenters the room with PASTOR KAREN behind him. They stand there for a moment while CHRIS and MATTHEW go on, unaware that KEVIN and the PASTOR are watching them.
KEVIN: Christopher! Matthew!
CHRIS and MATTHEW freeze for a moment. They slowly turn to face KEVIN while they say to each other,
CHRIS: Uh oh!
MATTHEW: I TOLD YOU IT WAS A BAD IDEA!
KEVIN: moving toward the boys Bad? Au contrair! Thank you! You’ve done exactly what I asked of you – you showed leadership and you handled this problem on your own.
CHRIS: Thanks? Oh! Um. You’re welcome!?
Youth receive relief from their indebtedness.
MATTHEW: It was all MY idea!
KEVIN: You have truly shown compassion for your fellow youth.
MATTHEW: We did?
CHRIS: Yeah, we know – that’s what we were going for.
JEANETTE: But for the right reasons? Or the wrong reasons?
Kids all start to talk amongst themselves, high-five each other, laugh and playfully shove one another.
PASTOR KAREN Bangs “gavel”.
KEVIN: Turning to look at Karen. Why do I suddenly feel like we’re on trial and you are the judge?
PASTOR: Just trying to restore a little order here. Okay, thank you, Youth of Grace – for, um, your announcement, this would be a good time for you to go back to your seats now.
KEVIN: But wait a minute. Jeanette asked a very good question. A lot of people might question why I might think that what Chris and Matthew did was a good thing.
PASTOR: And what would you say to them?
KEVIN: Well, you know, I got to thinking about it, and what just happened here reminded me a lot about the gospel lesson we just heard.
PASTOR: Really?
KEVIN: Yes, really.
PASTOR: Please, say more.
KEVIN: Well, in the gospel, the manager went through his accounts and he gave all of them a break on what they owed, right? I was reading about this lesson last week. The amounts these people owed were worth like one or two years’ wages for the average worker. One or two YEARS! So he really, REALLY did them a favor –
PASTOR: That’s true,
KEVIN: So when I saw Matthew and Christopher bargaining with the youth and letting them off the hook, I guess I just got carried away. Because it seemed like the same thing, and it felt like I was cast in the role of the rich man. In the story from the gospel, it seemed like he was pleased. And the kids were all stressing out and suddenly they seemed so relieved. So that was a good thing, right?
PASTOR: You’re right Kevin, It does seem a lot like our gospel, doesn’t it?
JEANETTE: Standing. But Pastor Karen, I’m confused.
PASTOR: Why is that, Jeanette?
JEANETTE: Because even though we kids were stressed out, and even though what Chris and Matt did helped us out and made us feel good, it really wasn’t fair when you think about it. And in the gospel, it really isn’t fair what the manager did. The people didn’t pay what they really owed. If you owe somebody something you’re supposed to pay them back in full. It seems to me like cheating. The manager cheated and Matthew and Chris cheated and we all benefitted. That’s not fair. But you’re saying something good happened here and it’s like the gospel. Can you help me out here?
PASTOR: Well, Jeanette, here’s one way to look at it. And remember, it really is just one way to look at it. Parables like this one are designed to make us think, and question, and continually look for parallels on how they might help us to understand how the kingdom of God works. They invite us to really think about how God’s justice looks different, sometimes, from justice the way the world sees it. And to be honest, my friends, this parable is one of the most difficult to try and work with.
But this is how I think we can make sense of it today. In the parable, the debtors owed amounts that were staggering, just like Kevin said. It was unlikely that they would ever be able to pay them off, no matter how hard they tried. Imagine having credit card debt in this day and age, and owing an amount equal or better than one or two years of your income - you would never be able to pay it off. If you’re lucky you might be able to pay the minimum payment due each month – if you’re lucky - but with interest rates growing your debt each month, you become hopeless of ever being able to retire the debt. After all, if you had that kind of money, you wouldn’t have the debt to begin with.
It’s the same way with sin. Sin is our debt, and we all know that no matter how hard we try, we just can’t stop sinning and we can’t pay off our debt. We can’t cancel the debt. We just keep adding to it.
But then Jesus comes along. Jesus does even more than the manager was able to do in this parable, he forgives our debt entirely – no, actually, the truth is that he pays it for us. Jesus pays our debt on the cross, and it is at the foot of the cross, when we come to understand the enormous cost of this gift, and the life-changing relief that it brings, that we begin to understand the truth about grace. Is it expected? No. Is it fair? No way! Does it look anything like the system of checks and balances, what we think of as just, or in any way resemble the way economy works in our world? Not on your life! But that’s how it is in the kingdom of God. God does the most unexpected, unreasonable, unfair thing in the universe, when God sent Jesus to set us free from the indebtedness of our sin.
When Jesus came to set us free, he turned the expectations of the world, especially those having to do with what is fair and what is not, upside down and inside out. Because God loves us enough not to play by our rules. That’s what we call grace. It comes to us freely. Grace comes to us unexpectedly, when we are in over our heads in sin, drowning with it in fact, with our debt multiplying daily, and God frees us from the debt we owe. When God does that our lives are changed and transformed in ways we never thought possible.
When I read the rich man’s response to what seems like the crazy dealings of the manager, I am reminded of God’s words regarding Jesus. “This is my son, with whom I am well pleased.” I think that one way we can look at this parable and at what happened here today, is to compare the good news of this gospel with the reality of our lives – God’s grace means that no matter who you are, and no matter how hard you are struggling or how deeply you feel your failings, Jesus is always coming to you, standing there beside you, relieving the burden of your sin so that you might live fully into the kingdom of God. Freed from the enormous burden of our sin, we are able to share the good news of God’s grace and mercy with everyone you meet, even, and especially, with those who are deeply indebted to you.
KEVIN: You know, Pastor Karen that reminds me of the movie, Pay It Forward - you know, the one with Helen Hunt and Kevin Spacey? Well, in that movie somebody is given a great gift, with no expectation of paying the giver back. Instead they pay the kindness forward - they can gift other people in a chain of random gifts of kindness and I guess, using your word, grace.
PASTOR: Well said, Kevin. Well, I guess the youth had more to tell us about this morning than a simple fund raiser, whether they knew it or not! I think that they have helped us begin to think about God’s love and God’s sense of justice and how much bigger, more surprising, and liberating they really are. Today, I think we can begin by thanking God for paying our debt, for the gift of grace, and for freeing us so that we might “pay it forward” for the Kingdom of God.

Amen.